my instance now:
```
zorigami# ps aux | awk 'NR == 1 || /[s]ynapse/' 
USER         PID %CPU %MEM    VSZ   RSS TTY      STAT START   TIME COMMAND
matrix-+ 2090085  2.2  0.1 1500460 245008 ?      Ssl  Jul04  57:51 /nix/store/8w718rm43x7z73xhw9d6vh8s4snrq67h-python3-3.12.10/bin/python3.12 /nix/store/05475lvk3c3ycmb0l8r3c0l40xwpfa54-matrix-synapse-1.131.0/bin/.synapse_homeserver-wrapped --config-path /nix/store/dd052xji6my2z2iysxid2yqbnmn67bjd-homeserver.yaml --config-path /run/agenix/synapseExtraConfig --keys-directory /var/lib/matrix-synapse
postgres 2090465  0.0  0.1 255108 177424 ?       Ss   Jul04   1:27 postgres: matrix-synapse matrix-synapse [local] idle
postgres 2090466  0.0  0.1 237020 157572 ?       Ss   Jul04   1:26 postgres: matrix-synapse matrix-synapse [local] idle
postgres 2090468  0.0  0.1 237324 158696 ?       Ss   Jul04   1:28 postgres: matrix-synapse matrix-synapse [local] idle
postgres 2090470  0.0  0.1 255108 176348 ?       Ss   Jul04   1:29 postgres: matrix-synapse matrix-synapse [local] idle
postgres 2090473  0.0  0.1 255208 176952 ?       Ss   Jul04   1:29 postgres: matrix-synapse matrix-synapse [local] idle
```